Monday, February 22, 2010
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Laura Silsby's Orphanage Documents Revealed, Created 6 Days After Quake
Anderson Cooper is revealing much information about Laura Silsby's claims of being a well intended woman wanting to help poor kids.
To find out more about this case, read about the coverage by Anderson Cooper on Laura Silsby's case
To find out more about this case, read about the coverage by Anderson Cooper on Laura Silsby's case
Friday, February 5, 2010
Girl's Smile Despite The Surrounding Chaos Represents Hope and Future of Haiti
Waiting in line to receive food and water
Thursday, February 4, 2010
What Pushes Haitian Parents To Give Up Their Kids
Understanding Haiti: Haitian Adoptions, Restavek Creation Phenomenon, and Sponsorships:
The case of the 10 American Baptist missionaries who were caught crossing the Haitian border with the Dominican Republic with 33 Haitian children illustrates what many Haitians have known for many years. Parents who are unable to take care of their offspring often resort to giving them up or placing them with well-to-do or well-off families around them or in the capital. Usually, the parents know and trust the people who will care for their children. These parents were dealing with two extremes. Either they keep taking care of their children with the knowledge that these kids may not have the best education, enough food to eat and may end up growing up with no possibility of earning a living or they give them up to somebody who will provide for their needs. In many cases, some Haitians will make the difficult choice of letting them go to a better life. These cases are not to be confused with the cases of abandoned children seen in most first-world or developed countries such as the United States of America, Canada, France, Germany and others. The parents still want to be part of their kids' lives. It is mostly a survival tactic based on true economic, financial assessments. In the case of orphanages functioning in Haiti, these kids are sure to find shelter and food to eat. They live in the orphanage even though their parents are still alive. Orphanages in Haiti are not only for kids whose parents truly died. They also exist for the kids whose parents are alive but unable to care for them due to abject poverty, lack of financial resources and whereabouts, and education. That is why we push sponsorship of these kids who will continue to live with their parents who receive a monthly stipend to provide for their own family. Now, the true orphans and the kids whose parents were not involved in their upbringing can be taken to orphanages. The continued failure by Haitian authorities to provide for these children in well-regulated and monitored group homes gave rise to the phenomenon of "Haitian Street Children." Stung by the motivation to survive and the needs to meet their primary, basic needs, they resort to begging on street corners and doing odd jobs in the capital and other major cities of the country. Their survival instinct takes over. Just like many Haitians, these kids are trying to make ends meet. They are working for their daily bread, daily meals. The Jan. 12, 2010 earthquake destroyed everything for most Haitians including these kids. They become the traditionally most desperate among the new group of desperate, shelterless and Haitian poor. The cycle of poverty has just reached some deeper levels. Poor or rich, most parents would like their kids to surpass them and know success.
According to Unicef, "Children unaccompanied by adults, including orphans and those sent by their parents to live with more affluent relatives or strangers, run a greater risk of being abducted, enslaved, abused, sold or trafficked because of the lack of security in the wake of last month's devastating earthquake..."
Socio-economic, Historical, Cultural Components:
It is appropriate to give some background information on Haitian Restavek (literally those who stay with or live with a well-off family member or stranger). In most cases, the Haitian kids who are placed with well-off families do not always take good care of them. These kids do not eat with the rest of the family, yet they are expected to do all the heavy-duty labor. They remind me of the "Fisherboys" kids shown on Oprah Winfrey show. Members of the family with whom these kids live often end up exploiting them, abusing them and doing anything less than raising them to become outstanding and contributing citizens later on. In most Haitians' minds, the word "Restavek" connotes or identifies kids who are on their last luck or are given a last chance. Not all restavek receive the same treatment from their new or de facto parents. Birth or biological parents take this alternative after weighing all their options in their efforts to provide a better life for their children. Unfortunately, many bad individuals take advantage of this willingness to let go of the kids. Restavek is a Haitian creation to fill in the voids and the needs for proper supervising agencies left unmet by Haitian authorities. With no education, vocational training, social services (welfare, pregnant women benefits, social security) to fall back on and no remittances from family members living overseas, the unemployed, illiterate Haitian parents may resort to a family member or complete stranger living in the capital to provide what they can not give to their children. This may explain why some of the parents of the 33 Haitian children are resurfacing. All along, they were around but were unable to take care of their children. Obviously, their stories are different from those of the Baptist leader who said that these kids were given to them by distant family members.
Church-based Schools: Catholic Schools and Mission Schools and Orphanages.
When well executed, the Restavek creation takes the place of sponsorship and adoptions in the minds of most Haitians. Restavek persists because of the high rate of unemployment, illiteracy, historically dire financial conditions which lead to poverty. All restavek are not orphans. There are more restavek cases than Haitian adoptions. Adoptions by families living in the US, Canada, Netherlands, France and other countries may take time before they get approved by the judge and Haitian authorities. Any well-intentioned individual can obtain the right permit and license to run an orphanage in Haiti. Haitian authorities know the kids are living and being cared for. Taking the kids across border without the right paperwork is highly discouraged and may result in a lot of headaches and frustration. Nobody wants or has to be jailed for wanting to help desperate children. Despite the devastation and chaos in Haiti, Haitian authorities want to send out a strong message that the country is not a free for all. They want to down on potential traffickers. Evangelistic groups erecting churches in Haiti usually run schools and orphanages. The Catholic Sisters and Brethren are good examples of this. Over the years, they have invested heavily in education in Haiti. Les Freres Salesiens (Salesian Brothers) and various other convents probably have the best private schools to which most Haitian parents want to send their kids. The situation is worse when all or most of these Christian denominations and missions facilities suffered severe damage or were destroyed by the quake and persistent aftershocks. (Some of them may still have countless children trapped underneath piles of debris). We must add that only a small group is able to afford to attend these private institutions.
http://helphaitiquake.blogspot.com
The case of the 10 American Baptist missionaries who were caught crossing the Haitian border with the Dominican Republic with 33 Haitian children illustrates what many Haitians have known for many years. Parents who are unable to take care of their offspring often resort to giving them up or placing them with well-to-do or well-off families around them or in the capital. Usually, the parents know and trust the people who will care for their children. These parents were dealing with two extremes. Either they keep taking care of their children with the knowledge that these kids may not have the best education, enough food to eat and may end up growing up with no possibility of earning a living or they give them up to somebody who will provide for their needs. In many cases, some Haitians will make the difficult choice of letting them go to a better life. These cases are not to be confused with the cases of abandoned children seen in most first-world or developed countries such as the United States of America, Canada, France, Germany and others. The parents still want to be part of their kids' lives. It is mostly a survival tactic based on true economic, financial assessments. In the case of orphanages functioning in Haiti, these kids are sure to find shelter and food to eat. They live in the orphanage even though their parents are still alive. Orphanages in Haiti are not only for kids whose parents truly died. They also exist for the kids whose parents are alive but unable to care for them due to abject poverty, lack of financial resources and whereabouts, and education. That is why we push sponsorship of these kids who will continue to live with their parents who receive a monthly stipend to provide for their own family. Now, the true orphans and the kids whose parents were not involved in their upbringing can be taken to orphanages. The continued failure by Haitian authorities to provide for these children in well-regulated and monitored group homes gave rise to the phenomenon of "Haitian Street Children." Stung by the motivation to survive and the needs to meet their primary, basic needs, they resort to begging on street corners and doing odd jobs in the capital and other major cities of the country. Their survival instinct takes over. Just like many Haitians, these kids are trying to make ends meet. They are working for their daily bread, daily meals. The Jan. 12, 2010 earthquake destroyed everything for most Haitians including these kids. They become the traditionally most desperate among the new group of desperate, shelterless and Haitian poor. The cycle of poverty has just reached some deeper levels. Poor or rich, most parents would like their kids to surpass them and know success.
According to Unicef, "Children unaccompanied by adults, including orphans and those sent by their parents to live with more affluent relatives or strangers, run a greater risk of being abducted, enslaved, abused, sold or trafficked because of the lack of security in the wake of last month's devastating earthquake..."
Socio-economic, Historical, Cultural Components:
It is appropriate to give some background information on Haitian Restavek (literally those who stay with or live with a well-off family member or stranger). In most cases, the Haitian kids who are placed with well-off families do not always take good care of them. These kids do not eat with the rest of the family, yet they are expected to do all the heavy-duty labor. They remind me of the "Fisherboys" kids shown on Oprah Winfrey show. Members of the family with whom these kids live often end up exploiting them, abusing them and doing anything less than raising them to become outstanding and contributing citizens later on. In most Haitians' minds, the word "Restavek" connotes or identifies kids who are on their last luck or are given a last chance. Not all restavek receive the same treatment from their new or de facto parents. Birth or biological parents take this alternative after weighing all their options in their efforts to provide a better life for their children. Unfortunately, many bad individuals take advantage of this willingness to let go of the kids. Restavek is a Haitian creation to fill in the voids and the needs for proper supervising agencies left unmet by Haitian authorities. With no education, vocational training, social services (welfare, pregnant women benefits, social security) to fall back on and no remittances from family members living overseas, the unemployed, illiterate Haitian parents may resort to a family member or complete stranger living in the capital to provide what they can not give to their children. This may explain why some of the parents of the 33 Haitian children are resurfacing. All along, they were around but were unable to take care of their children. Obviously, their stories are different from those of the Baptist leader who said that these kids were given to them by distant family members.
Church-based Schools: Catholic Schools and Mission Schools and Orphanages.
When well executed, the Restavek creation takes the place of sponsorship and adoptions in the minds of most Haitians. Restavek persists because of the high rate of unemployment, illiteracy, historically dire financial conditions which lead to poverty. All restavek are not orphans. There are more restavek cases than Haitian adoptions. Adoptions by families living in the US, Canada, Netherlands, France and other countries may take time before they get approved by the judge and Haitian authorities. Any well-intentioned individual can obtain the right permit and license to run an orphanage in Haiti. Haitian authorities know the kids are living and being cared for. Taking the kids across border without the right paperwork is highly discouraged and may result in a lot of headaches and frustration. Nobody wants or has to be jailed for wanting to help desperate children. Despite the devastation and chaos in Haiti, Haitian authorities want to send out a strong message that the country is not a free for all. They want to down on potential traffickers. Evangelistic groups erecting churches in Haiti usually run schools and orphanages. The Catholic Sisters and Brethren are good examples of this. Over the years, they have invested heavily in education in Haiti. Les Freres Salesiens (Salesian Brothers) and various other convents probably have the best private schools to which most Haitian parents want to send their kids. The situation is worse when all or most of these Christian denominations and missions facilities suffered severe damage or were destroyed by the quake and persistent aftershocks. (Some of them may still have countless children trapped underneath piles of debris). We must add that only a small group is able to afford to attend these private institutions.
http://helphaitiquake.blogspot.com
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Wanting to Do Good When Bad Happens: How Could It Go So Wrong in the Case of these 10 American Church Members from Idaho?
Somebody must be able to help these people who wanted to do good but ended up getting caught due to lack of proper documents. Who is it going to be? Many American citizens do not know much about what is required to visit another country. As far as having the right documents to move children, they may have been clueless too.
What a pity! There is no doubt it is a very stressful situation for everybody involved. In the meantime, the children were rescued.
Friday, January 29, 2010
American, French, Canadian and Dutch Families Who Want to Adopt Haitian Children First Learn Haitian Creole
Just like any aid workers, doctors and humanitarian helpers, American, French, Canadian families are learning Haitian Creole in order to reach out and help rebuild the country. There is an urgency to connect and understand Haitian languages and cultures. Right in their living room, they witness the risks faced the Haitian orphans. They want to help one way or the other. They want to be able to say they are sorry for the devastation brought by the quake and its aftershocks.
Through words of mouth and social networks, most of these future adoptive parents and aid workers turn to one source: http://haitiancreolemp3.libsyn.com to brush up their language skills. Haitian American, Adoptive Parents and Haitian Adoptees Language Consultant, Educator Mr. J. Charles created free Haitian Creole lessons on this site.
Due to the high demand for more Creole lessons, he posts new lessons on a regular basis. So far, all the large files use up lots of bandwith. Even though the lessons are free, he would appreciate receiving some donations to keep the service free at http://haitiancreolemp3.libsyn.com. He has to pay the bills every month. So keep HaitianCreoleMP3 Free for ever!
Learn Haitian Creole from a native who completed his studies in Haiti, then came to the United States of America to pursue and obtain his master's degree.
Through words of mouth and social networks, most of these future adoptive parents and aid workers turn to one source: http://haitiancreolemp3.libsyn.com to brush up their language skills. Haitian American, Adoptive Parents and Haitian Adoptees Language Consultant, Educator Mr. J. Charles created free Haitian Creole lessons on this site.
Due to the high demand for more Creole lessons, he posts new lessons on a regular basis. So far, all the large files use up lots of bandwith. Even though the lessons are free, he would appreciate receiving some donations to keep the service free at http://haitiancreolemp3.libsyn.com. He has to pay the bills every month. So keep HaitianCreoleMP3 Free for ever!
Learn Haitian Creole from a native who completed his studies in Haiti, then came to the United States of America to pursue and obtain his master's degree.
Monday, January 25, 2010
Why Not You: You Too Can Sponsor a Haitian Child Affected by the Jan. 12 Earthquake
Why not You? You Too Can Sponsor a Haitian Child Affected by Jan. 12/2010 Earthquake: Just Select a Need to Meet among the Sea of Unlimited Needs
Many of you have called and written to me (sponsorachildemail@gmail.com), asking whether you can sponsor a Haitian child, a Haitian family, a Haitian church or a Haitian school. You have been wondering about what you can do to help. Let me just tell you that I have good news for you. No matter how small your contribution to a Haitian child or family may be, it will be highly appreciated and welcome in these dire times. Just imagine that for the amount of change you spend at Starbucks and McDonald's, you can help feed a hungry child and give hope to a Haitian family who lost everything in the rubbles of the quake.
SponsorandFeedaChild Program gives you the opportunity to meet the needs of the families and children living in outlying areas affected by the quake. These communities are outside of Port-au-Prince. The relief agencies workers may not know them. No wonder they concentrate their relief efforts on Port au Prince only. According to my sources on the grounds, the food distribution you see in the ravaged, devastated areas of Port-au-Prince has not reached them in the provinces. Knowing the country and taking into account the various infrastructure barriers that exist right now, I can tell you that people living in Carrefour, Leogane, Gressier, Carrefour du Fort, Fauche, Grande Ravine, Thozin, Morne Tapion, Jeanty, Gwo Dlo, Tete-a-Boeuf, Ti Paradi (Petit Paradis), Papette, Petit Goave and beyond will continue to be without food and water for some time to come.
SponsorandFeedaChild Program was created by a group of close friends in June 2008 after my trip to the country and after having spent close to 18 years in the United States of America. That was before the 4 hurricanes and destructive floods of 2008 hit the country. The needs were unlimited then. After the Jan. 12, 2010 earthquake, multiply them by 100! Now you can understand the urgency that drives and motivates our actions. Our roots are deep in the rural areas of Haiti.
SponsorandFeedaChild relies on its network of concerned local correspondents, residents of these various regions and members of the rural communities to assess the needs and reach out to the very needy people among them. I have heard from them all. Their situation is very serious and dire. Depending on the availability of funds in "Haiti Rural Development Funds," SponsorandFeedaChild plans on working with the various rural development groups that are looking forward to rebuilding potable water cisterns or wells, rebuilding schools, clinics and orphanages that were destroyed by the quake. So your donations are all the more urgent and important.
SponsorandFeedachild Program is also interested in long-term sustainability projects encouraging entrepreneurship, incubating, and sparking microbusiness development with and for Haitian women. This way, they can reach self-sufficiency in the near future. After all, the Haitian women are the glue that keeps the family together.
For now, we will focus on stabilizing the situation by meeting the primary needs!
Now, set your priorities straight. Make up your mind and decide to sponsor one of these groups:
1.) For a monthly commitment of as little as $30 or as much as you want to contribute per month, you can sponsor a Haitian child. You will receive news of the child and his/her family. Once our volunteers are equipped with digital cameras, they will be able to take a picture of your sponsored child. We'll send it to you!
2.) You can choose to sponsor a Haitian family with more than 4 mouths to feed for as little as $50 or as much as you want on a monthly basis. The outcome of your donations is that a family will be kept in tact. The children will be able to find shelter and food. SponsorandFeedaChild is aiming at stabilizing the living conditions of such families.
3.) School Rebuilding: With a one-time or more donation to SponsorandFeedaChild, you can help rebuild a school that will educate Haitian children.
4.) Medical Care and Clinics: You can choose to help heal the broken bodies of Haitian children affected by the quake. Help meet their primary needs with your donation.
5.) If you are a religious person, you can sponsor a religious group, a missionary etc.
6,) If you are thinking about addressing major problems affecting Haitian rural communities such as lack of job creation and economic investment, you may want to donate to "Haiti Rural Communities Fund." Go to http://helphaitiquake.blogspot.com to see what you can do.
Many of you have called and written to me (sponsorachildemail@gmail.com), asking whether you can sponsor a Haitian child, a Haitian family, a Haitian church or a Haitian school. You have been wondering about what you can do to help. Let me just tell you that I have good news for you. No matter how small your contribution to a Haitian child or family may be, it will be highly appreciated and welcome in these dire times. Just imagine that for the amount of change you spend at Starbucks and McDonald's, you can help feed a hungry child and give hope to a Haitian family who lost everything in the rubbles of the quake.
SponsorandFeedaChild Program gives you the opportunity to meet the needs of the families and children living in outlying areas affected by the quake. These communities are outside of Port-au-Prince. The relief agencies workers may not know them. No wonder they concentrate their relief efforts on Port au Prince only. According to my sources on the grounds, the food distribution you see in the ravaged, devastated areas of Port-au-Prince has not reached them in the provinces. Knowing the country and taking into account the various infrastructure barriers that exist right now, I can tell you that people living in Carrefour, Leogane, Gressier, Carrefour du Fort, Fauche, Grande Ravine, Thozin, Morne Tapion, Jeanty, Gwo Dlo, Tete-a-Boeuf, Ti Paradi (Petit Paradis), Papette, Petit Goave and beyond will continue to be without food and water for some time to come.
SponsorandFeedaChild Program was created by a group of close friends in June 2008 after my trip to the country and after having spent close to 18 years in the United States of America. That was before the 4 hurricanes and destructive floods of 2008 hit the country. The needs were unlimited then. After the Jan. 12, 2010 earthquake, multiply them by 100! Now you can understand the urgency that drives and motivates our actions. Our roots are deep in the rural areas of Haiti.
SponsorandFeedaChild relies on its network of concerned local correspondents, residents of these various regions and members of the rural communities to assess the needs and reach out to the very needy people among them. I have heard from them all. Their situation is very serious and dire. Depending on the availability of funds in "Haiti Rural Development Funds," SponsorandFeedaChild plans on working with the various rural development groups that are looking forward to rebuilding potable water cisterns or wells, rebuilding schools, clinics and orphanages that were destroyed by the quake. So your donations are all the more urgent and important.
SponsorandFeedachild Program is also interested in long-term sustainability projects encouraging entrepreneurship, incubating, and sparking microbusiness development with and for Haitian women. This way, they can reach self-sufficiency in the near future. After all, the Haitian women are the glue that keeps the family together.
For now, we will focus on stabilizing the situation by meeting the primary needs!
Now, set your priorities straight. Make up your mind and decide to sponsor one of these groups:
1.) For a monthly commitment of as little as $30 or as much as you want to contribute per month, you can sponsor a Haitian child. You will receive news of the child and his/her family. Once our volunteers are equipped with digital cameras, they will be able to take a picture of your sponsored child. We'll send it to you!
2.) You can choose to sponsor a Haitian family with more than 4 mouths to feed for as little as $50 or as much as you want on a monthly basis. The outcome of your donations is that a family will be kept in tact. The children will be able to find shelter and food. SponsorandFeedaChild is aiming at stabilizing the living conditions of such families.
3.) School Rebuilding: With a one-time or more donation to SponsorandFeedaChild, you can help rebuild a school that will educate Haitian children.
4.) Medical Care and Clinics: You can choose to help heal the broken bodies of Haitian children affected by the quake. Help meet their primary needs with your donation.
5.) If you are a religious person, you can sponsor a religious group, a missionary etc.
6,) If you are thinking about addressing major problems affecting Haitian rural communities such as lack of job creation and economic investment, you may want to donate to "Haiti Rural Communities Fund." Go to http://helphaitiquake.blogspot.com to see what you can do.
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